ಅಸಕ್ತಿಯ ಪಯಣದೆಡೆಗೆ - Stepping Towards Passion

 ಮನುಷ್ಯ ಬದುಕುತ್ತೀರುವುದು ಉಸಿರಾಟದಿಂದ. ಆದರೆ ನಮ್ಮನ್ನು ನಿಜವಾಗಲು  ಬದುಕಿಸುತ್ತೀರುವುದು ನಮ್ಮ ಭಾವನೆಗಳು.  ನಾವು ಹುಟ್ಟಿನಲ್ಲಿ ಯಾವುದೇ ರೀತಿಯ ಸಂಭದಗಳಿಲ್ಲದೆ ಹುಟ್ಟುತ್ತೀವಿ ಬೆಳೆಯುತ್ತಾ ತಾಯಿಯ ಪ್ರೀತಿ , ತಂದೆಯ ಹಾರೈಕೆ ಎಂಬ ಭಾವನೆಗಳೂಂದಿಗೆ ಪಯಣ ಶುರುಮಾಡುತ್ತೇವೆ.ಬೆಳೆಯುತ್ತಾ ಸಹೋದರ ವಾತ್ಸಲ್ಯ,ಬಂಧುಬಳಗ,ಗೆಳೆಯರು ಹೀಗೆ ನಮ್ಮದೆ ಭಾವನೆಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ಉಸಿರಾಡುತ್ತೇವೆ. ನಮಗೆ ನಮ್ಮ ಸಂಸಾರ,ಮಕ್ಕಳು ಬಂದ ನಂತರ ಸ್ವಾರ್ಥವೆಂಬ ಭಾವನೆಗಳು ಶುರುವಾಗುತ್ತದೆ. ನಾನು ಎಂಬ ಅಹಂಕಾರ ಹುಟ್ಟಿನಿಂದ ಬಂದ ಸಂಬಂಧಗಳನ್ನು ಮರಿಯುವಂತೆ ಮಾಡುತ್ತದೆ.   ಯಾರು ಎಲ್ಲಾ ಸಂಭದಗಳನ್ನು ಸರಿಯಾದ ಭಾವನೆಗಳೂಂದಿಗೆ ಸಾಗಿಸುತ್ತಾರೋ ಅವರೆ ನಿಜವಾದ ಸುಖಿಗಳು.

ನಾವು ಬಾಲ್ಯದಲ್ಲಿ ಪೊಷಕರಿಗಾಗಿ ,ಯವ್ವನದಲ್ಲಿ ಗೆಳೆಯರಿಗಾಗಿ, ಮದುವೆಯಾದಮೇಲೆ ಸಂಗಾತಿ ಮಕ್ಕಳಿಗಾಗಿ ಮತ್ತು ವಯಸ್ಸಾದಾಗ ಮೊಮ್ಮಕ್ಕಳಿಗಾಗಿ ಬದುಕುತ್ತೇವೆ ಆದರೆ ನಾವು ನಮಗಾಗಿ ಬದುಕುವುದು ಯಾವಗ?. ನಮಗೆ ನಮ್ಮದೆಯಾದ ಅಭಿರುಚಿ ಮತ್ತು ಯಾವುದೊ ಒಂದು ಅಸಕ್ತಿ ಇರುತ್ತದೆ. ನಮ್ಮನ್ನು ನಮ್ಮಲ್ಲಿ ಕಾಣುವ ಪ್ರಯತ್ನ ನಾವು ಮಾಡಬೇಕು. ನಮಗಾಗಿ ನಾವು ಸಮಯ ಕಳಿಯಬೇಕು.ಮನಸ್ಸು ಯಾವಗಲು ಖುಷಿಯಾಗಿರಬೇಕು ಎಂದರೆ ದಿನದಲ್ಲಿ ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ಸಮಯ ನಮಗಾಗಿ ಮಿಸಲಿಡಬೇಕು. ಪ್ರವಾಸಮಾಡಿ ,ಇಷ್ಟವಾದ  ಜನರೊಡನೆ ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ಕಲಾಕಳೆಯಿರಿ , ಶಾಪಿಂಗ್ ಮಾಡಿ.

Its not easy to decide having a single child in India. As a parent there are many challenges we will be facing . Most importantly from our elders who insist to have at least 2 kids. Once the child turns out to 3 year pressure increases. When we were small we had good time with siblings. Some time we feel our child going to miss it. Now a days our children's in early age ask us mama why am i alone ?  My  friends have brother / sister. Being a parent it is difficult to explain them our decision. We can understand their loneliness. As per my observation boy child will not be more worried about being single but girl feel more emotional being single child. However we can handle these situations if we are wise. Be the Best Friend to child I usually spend more time with my kid. Also encourage child to be free with you. Listen to their feelings it may good or some time bad as a friend guide them to right direction. If we behave like parent they will depend on others to ...

We are moving fast towards latest technology. Our children's are too much addicted towards usage of gadgets. We are proudly saying that my child is just 2 year and he/she knows all functions of modern gadgets.,which I don't even know. We should question our selves is that a good sign? Eating , playing , sleeping with gadget. We have better options for our kids for entertainment. Story Books There are many interesting story Books available for kids read it for them. Which can give them moral values.,Inspiration. Playtime Encourage them to play with other childrens. Its important as well as improve their communication , physical exercise, develops confidence , improves scocial living. Ofcourse we do get good friends from children's. Take them to children's park  Children's will have fun as well as active if we daily take them to park. At least an hour a day. If you are working women ask your maid to take them.  Instead of making...

Being a mother is like growing child in you. After having kid life changes a lot we grow with child emotionally , physically. Our social life changes. Mother of a month to 1 year baby is a age of learning as well as stress full life. We compromise with sleep, food habit according to baby convinent. career change is one of the important decision during this age. Either we have to relay on some one or quit job. Both are difficult decision to take but we should not repent in future. What ever you decide it's your choice. When baby turns a year we are little mature mom. We start giving advice to others who are expecting 😁. It's beautiful experience in the world which can't be explained in words those first steps of a baby , expression , small words makes us feel proud. Specially when they say amma (mom) such a nice feeling. We should encourage them with baby books.  When they become 2 to 3 they  start running pulling, taking out all house hold items. If we go out ...

The child was playing with sand ,mud enjoying it's play. On the other way round in a big bangaloo looking out from Window , laughing. Mom comes near to child to see reason for laugh. It shows her road side child who is playing. Mom takes her kid and gives him I pod to play.   who grow with nature is most lukiest person in the world. Nature gives us possitive energy. Aroma of soil , flowers with different colour , sand play we had good childhood. Our next generation is missing it seriously.